Tejaswini

A new initiative by Indian government. They have launched “women only” bus. Specially during peak hours so that women may travel comfortably. A round of applause for this step.

Wait !!! Why do we women need this ? Special coach in train, reservation of seats in bus and now this “women only” bus? 8 march is celebrated as international women’s day to acknowledge the achievements by women’s. This day every women is told that they are not less than anyone and they do accept it. If we the women are not lacking anywhere then why do we need special reservations treatment ? Many will troll with answers that it’s not comfortable to sit with many men’s, and why we don’t feel comfortable? Because we were harassed sometimes by not only physical touch but plenty of times because the way they look at us with lust.

Is this the case only with women? Do men’s also go through it ? Yes, they do. Even they are harassed. I was watching an Indian television show “satyamev jayate” and a men said his story on that show. He was sexually harassed for about 16 years. Yes 16 years, by his own uncle. It was terrifying to know this. Like women even men has many problems. Its just that we both have our own different problems and every individual think his problem is bigger than anyone in this world. Always remember one thing, god test you only on what you are capable of. So, no problem is bigger than your capability.

As women feel they need to be cared even men feel the same. Men’s are less expressive than women. They will rarely share their problems or issues they are going through. Sometimes try to understand them too.

This world is not about who is stronger ? Men or women ? It’s about how we “human beings” can make this place better to live in.

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System administrator has set policies to prevent this installation

I was very frustrated because of this error when I was trying to install some software on my windows. Tried number of different solution but was not successful.  But, today I tried something and it worked. I would like to share the solution with you. It is very simple.

Following are the steps:

  1. START
  2. CONTROL PANEL
  3. USER ACCOUNTS
  4. CHANGE USER ACCOUNT CONTROL SETTINGS
  5. DRAG TO NEVER NOTIFY
  6. OK

And you are done :). After successful installation of the software please change the user account settings to default so that you are protected from malicious software.

 

 

 

What is Life ?

A big and a very common question for all of us. If we are happy we feel like we are in heaven. And when we are sad sometimes, feel like ending our life. I always think why there is sadness, difficulties, problems in our life ? And everyone answers life is combination of happiness and sadness. The value of happiness is known after value of sadness.

Yeah, I do agree ! But, I wish there would have been no sadness no difficulties in my life. I want everything that I wish for. But, when I look back I see “whatever happens, happens for a reason”. For example, when I was a child I never used to like to study(like most of the children). But my mother always made me to go school forcefully. I used to hate it. But, today when I have completed my post graduation I realize what is the importance of studies in our life. So, this was a very  short example. I used to cry a lot and feel god dosen’t like me . But, It was good for me.

Whenever we face a problem we always compare our life with others life. He is so happy and why I am not ? But, in this world each of us have some or the other problems in our life. Whenever you feel like giving up and not fighting for yourself remember one thing “Nothing is permanent”. Where there is a problem there is a solution. A light of day comes after darkness of night. So if you are sad, then get ready to get happier than before. 🙂

Sacrifice is the first step towards success !

Yes, its right ! While climbing each step of success you have to sacrifice at least one thing. The common sacrifice while climbing the steps of success is family. Some families don’t want us to play with our life’s or take risk. So, they don’t support us and there we sacrifice our family for our dreams. May be on other step some sacrifice their love. Love, with which he want to spend whole of his life. But, instead of selecting a happy life with his love he selects to sacrifice his love for achieving his dreams. And in this way every now and then sacrifices leads us to success.

This is life.. GIVE and TAKE. NO PAIN NO GAIN. So, if ever you have sacrificed something don’t be upset always think god has something more better than this for you. Once you realized this you will never feel sad and will chase your dream one day 🙂

Appreciation

The best gift ever can be given to a person is appreciation. No matter how small or big work he has done, a couple of words of appreciation will motivate him and will make his day. As its always said give respect, take respect. Life is whole about give and take. If you are managing a team the key skill a team leader should have is appreciating your team members. And if you learn that, your team will be the most good performer of all the teams. You should know how to handle a person or to motivate him. Even if he has done work not upto the mark you should only say you have done a good job but, I know you can do it better. And next time you will see the result. He will make sure to do it in a better way 🙂

A small word with a larger meaning and impact. Hope you will try it in your life, and do let me know what was the impact 🙂

An interesting write by Andy Rooney

I’ve learned….

That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I’ve learned….

That when you’re in love, it shows.

I’ve learned….

That just one person saying to me,

‘You’ve made my day!’ makes my day.

I’ve learned….

That having a child fall asleep in your arms is

One of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

I’ve learned….

That being Kind is more important than being Right.

I’ve learned….

That you should never say NO to a gift from a child.

I’ve learned….

That I can always pray for someone,

When I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.
I’ve learned….

That sometimes all a person needs

Is a Hand to hold and a Heart to understand.
I’ve learned….

That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

I’ve learned….

That money doesn’t buy class.

I’ve learned….

That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I’ve learned…

That under everyone’s hard shell is someone

who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I’ve learned….

That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

I’ve learned….

That when you plan to get even with someone,

you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I’ve learned….

That love, not time, heals all wounds.

I’ve learned….

That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is

to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I’ve learned….

That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

I’ve learned….

That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I’ve learned…

That life is tough,

to succeed you must become tougher.

I’ve learned….

That opportunities are never lost;

Someone will take the ones you miss.

I’ve learned….

That when you harbor bitterness,

Happiness will dock elsewhere.

I’ve learned….

That I wish I could have told my Mom that

I love her one more time before she passed away.

I’ve learned….

That one should keep his words both soft and tender,

Because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I’ve learned….

That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I’ve learned….

That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist,

That you’re hooked for life.

I’ve learned….

That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain,

But all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.

I’ve learned….

That the less time I have to work with,

The more things I get done.