Tejaswini

A new initiative by Indian government. They have launched “women only” bus. Specially during peak hours so that women may travel comfortably. A round of applause for this step.

Wait !!! Why do we women need this ? Special coach in train, reservation of seats in bus and now this “women only” bus? 8 march is celebrated as international women’s day to acknowledge the achievements by women’s. This day every women is told that they are not less than anyone and they do accept it. If we the women are not lacking anywhere then why do we need special reservations treatment ? Many will troll with answers that it’s not comfortable to sit with many men’s, and why we don’t feel comfortable? Because we were harassed sometimes by not only physical touch but plenty of times because the way they look at us with lust.

Is this the case only with women? Do men’s also go through it ? Yes, they do. Even they are harassed. I was watching an Indian television show “satyamev jayate” and a men said his story on that show. He was sexually harassed for about 16 years. Yes 16 years, by his own uncle. It was terrifying to know this. Like women even men has many problems. Its just that we both have our own different problems and every individual think his problem is bigger than anyone in this world. Always remember one thing, god test you only on what you are capable of. So, no problem is bigger than your capability.

As women feel they need to be cared even men feel the same. Men’s are less expressive than women. They will rarely share their problems or issues they are going through. Sometimes try to understand them too.

This world is not about who is stronger ? Men or women ? It’s about how we “human beings” can make this place better to live in.

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Sacrifice is the first step towards success !

Yes, its right ! While climbing each step of success you have to sacrifice at least one thing. The common sacrifice while climbing the steps of success is family. Some families don’t want us to play with our life’s or take risk. So, they don’t support us and there we sacrifice our family for our dreams. May be on other step some sacrifice their love. Love, with which he want to spend whole of his life. But, instead of selecting a happy life with his love he selects to sacrifice his love for achieving his dreams. And in this way every now and then sacrifices leads us to success.

This is life.. GIVE and TAKE. NO PAIN NO GAIN. So, if ever you have sacrificed something don’t be upset always think god has something more better than this for you. Once you realized this you will never feel sad and will chase your dream one day 🙂

Every PROBLEM has a SOLUTION

The title itself explains the whole meaning. The best example can be a mathematics problem. As most of us hate this subject, because we get jumbled up in the numbers. And, few of us who understands how to play with numbers get solution for each and every problem. Similarly, our life is like a mathematics full of problems. Some people get jumbled up in their own life cursing god, parents, friends etc. But, some instead of cursing start searching solution for it. And this are the people who are successful in their life.
It is best said

The best way to solve your problem is to face them

Only once one has known real sadness can one feel true happiness. So never step back to a problem go and face it. Instead of thinking in your 80’s what if I would have done that the life would have been something different. The true happiness comes when you achieve something in your life unexpectedly after facing tremendous problems in your life.

Always remember one thing if there is a problem there will be a solution. Go ahead and say to your self no problem can stop me reaching my goal and see you will achieve your goal.

One of my best inspirational words from the great Legend Steve Jobs

“When you grow up you tend to get told the world is the way it is and your life is just to live your life inside the world. Try not to bash into the walls too much. Try to have a nice family life, have fun, save a little money.

That’s a very limited life. Life can be much broader once you discover one simple fact, and that is – everything around you that you call life, was made up by people that were no smarter than you.

And you can change it, you can influence it, you can build your own things that other people can use.

The minute that you understand that you can poke life and actually something will, you know if you push in, something will pop out the other side, that you can change it, you can mold it.

That’s maybe the most important thing. It’s to shake off this erroneous notion that life is there and you’re just gonna live in it, versus embrace it, change it, improve it, make your mark upon it.

I think that’s very important and however you learn that, once you learn it, you’ll want to change life and make it better, cause it’s kind of messed up, in a lot of ways. Once you learn that, you’ll never be the same again.”