What is Life ?

A big and a very common question for all of us. If we are happy we feel like we are in heaven. And when we are sad sometimes, feel like ending our life. I always think why there is sadness, difficulties, problems in our life ? And everyone answers life is combination of happiness and sadness. The value of happiness is known after value of sadness.

Yeah, I do agree ! But, I wish there would have been no sadness no difficulties in my life. I want everything that I wish for. But, when I look back I see “whatever happens, happens for a reason”. For example, when I was a child I never used to like to study(like most of the children). But my mother always made me to go school forcefully. I used to hate it. But, today when I have completed my post graduation I realize what is the importance of studies in our life. So, this was a very  short example. I used to cry a lot and feel god dosen’t like me . But, It was good for me.

Whenever we face a problem we always compare our life with others life. He is so happy and why I am not ? But, in this world each of us have some or the other problems in our life. Whenever you feel like giving up and not fighting for yourself remember one thing “Nothing is permanent”. Where there is a problem there is a solution. A light of day comes after darkness of night. So if you are sad, then get ready to get happier than before. 🙂

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Appreciation

The best gift ever can be given to a person is appreciation. No matter how small or big work he has done, a couple of words of appreciation will motivate him and will make his day. As its always said give respect, take respect. Life is whole about give and take. If you are managing a team the key skill a team leader should have is appreciating your team members. And if you learn that, your team will be the most good performer of all the teams. You should know how to handle a person or to motivate him. Even if he has done work not upto the mark you should only say you have done a good job but, I know you can do it better. And next time you will see the result. He will make sure to do it in a better way 🙂

A small word with a larger meaning and impact. Hope you will try it in your life, and do let me know what was the impact 🙂

An interesting write by Andy Rooney

I’ve learned….

That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I’ve learned….

That when you’re in love, it shows.

I’ve learned….

That just one person saying to me,

‘You’ve made my day!’ makes my day.

I’ve learned….

That having a child fall asleep in your arms is

One of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

I’ve learned….

That being Kind is more important than being Right.

I’ve learned….

That you should never say NO to a gift from a child.

I’ve learned….

That I can always pray for someone,

When I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.
I’ve learned….

That sometimes all a person needs

Is a Hand to hold and a Heart to understand.
I’ve learned….

That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

I’ve learned….

That money doesn’t buy class.

I’ve learned….

That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I’ve learned…

That under everyone’s hard shell is someone

who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I’ve learned….

That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

I’ve learned….

That when you plan to get even with someone,

you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I’ve learned….

That love, not time, heals all wounds.

I’ve learned….

That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is

to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I’ve learned….

That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

I’ve learned….

That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I’ve learned…

That life is tough,

to succeed you must become tougher.

I’ve learned….

That opportunities are never lost;

Someone will take the ones you miss.

I’ve learned….

That when you harbor bitterness,

Happiness will dock elsewhere.

I’ve learned….

That I wish I could have told my Mom that

I love her one more time before she passed away.

I’ve learned….

That one should keep his words both soft and tender,

Because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I’ve learned….

That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I’ve learned….

That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist,

That you’re hooked for life.

I’ve learned….

That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain,

But all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.

I’ve learned….

That the less time I have to work with,

The more things I get done.